Painting a Dog a Day's In Memoriam Site

"In Memoriam" is a place where members of the Painting a Dog a Day community can join hands and share experiences.

When I lost TurtleDove and Miah, both my studio muses, mere months apart from each other, I was overwhelmed with the support and love Painting a Dog a Day readers showered upon me.  Sharing my loss with the community that had sprung up as a result of my daily pet portrait project was surprisingly healing.

Hence this blog, which in a serendipitous way marks the one year anniversary of Miah's death. "In Memoriam" is my gift to those of you who shared tears and stories of your own losses as I came to terms with my own. 

It is also a gift to those of you who will follow along in the coming days, weeks, or years with bereavement stories of your own.

So let's celebrate the beauty of the furry little lives we are blessed with for too short a time. Let them live on here, while they continue to dance in our hearts.
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Saturday, May 30, 2009

Derby, 1994-2006

Bounding over the pastures behind my husband's tractor, Derby looked like a very fast and balanced deer. She was a lovely fawn with a dark mask. 

The perception most people have of Greyhounds is that they are high strung and nervous. Truly, they are the polar opposite. It is their nature to be calm, disciplined, very polite and obedient. 

You would never know Derby was around unless you asked her if she wanted to go out and then an amazing transformation would take place. She loved being on the farm running free in our fenced pastures and chasing the squirrels and rabbits, but for the most part she loved doing what she was bred to do... RUN. 

This was one dog that could literally light up her face with a smile. Amazingly, Kimberly caught this happy expression when she painted Derby for Larry's surprise Christmas present. When he opened it, he just stared at it and said, "Hi, Derbs" and then tears came to his eyes. All of us loved Derby, but she and Larry had a very special bond, and they truly adored each other.

We were blessed to have had this beautiful and graceful creature with us for 10 years and nursed her through the last year of her life battling cancer. Her passing has left a huge void in our hearts. Her elegance will long be remembered, and her trust will always be missed.

I think the inscription on her grave stone says it all.... Derby, April 1994 - Sept 2006, You stole my heart, Larry.

S. Allgood

Thursday, May 28, 2009

Phoebe, 1996 - 2007

In April of 1996, I felt my world dissolving and needed the support and love that only a dog can give. I called all over New England looking for a female poodle puppy, but none were to be found. Until I found a breeder with a 6 month old who looked just like a Teddy Bear. I felt this was meant to be because I collected Teddy Bears!

I fell in love at first sight!  What a little handful she was from day one.  In fact, my mother was convinced that someone else had her before me, couldn’t handle her and returned her to the breeder.  She dubbed her “Wild Thing”.  I couldn’t imagine anyone returning her, no matter how difficult my life ever became. 

When I went to work, I put Phoebe in the kitchen with a baby gate, more to keep her safe than to protect my home.  I would come home to find the kitchen looking like a cyclone had gone through it, and Phoebe excitedly barking and crying, begging for me to spring her from her prison.  Every night.  Except for the third day.  When I came home from work and received NO greeting.  Just silence.  I ran around my home, went into my bedroom and stopped short!  There she was, in the middle of my bed, laying down with her head between her paws, just her eyes looking up at me so very guiltily!!!  Somehow, she had managed to jump UP on the bed, but was too frightened to jump back down!  This was, of course, just a precursor to “Life With Phoebe”.  And the beginning of her training of ME.  (No more baby gate….no more prison!)  She got into EVERYthing. 

Phoebe adored my mother – especially after she taught her to beg at the table.  Sigh.  This was the ONLY vice she DIDN’T have up until then.  After my mother passed away in 1999, Phoebe got me through the pain as only a beloved pet can. 

I knew she loved me in her own way.  When we’d go to bed, she’d get under the covers and get as close to my side as she possibly could, and sometimes fall asleep with her head on the palm of my hand.  She exasperated me sometimes, but never failed to make me laugh, and to comfort me if I was in any sort of distress. 

I lost my little girl in June of 2007 after a swiftly debilitating liver disease forced me to make the horrific decision to have her put out of her pain and suffering and have her euthanized.

My “Painting a Dog a Day” portrait of Phoebe is a treasure to me.  Kim somehow captured Phoebe’s true essence.  She was such a pretty little girl, and her spirit lives on in my heart.

A. VanVloten